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Thanks to all those who contributed ...


1.              It's hot, take shorts.
2.              Buy some water boots at Big W etc. Because you are going to be swimming or walking through mud at some stage littered with prickles, sticks and the kids will be begging for you to come. 
3.              Before you head to your new job, ask the parents what each child is into and buy then a book (reading, information or puzzle) on the subject.  A great little gift to give them on the first day in the schoolroom when you are getting to know them.
4.              Make sure during the interview stages that you pick a family that you think you'll be able to get along with, pay isn't everything.
5.              Get to know your family well before you go, become Facebook friends and all of you share videos of you and your life.
6.              If there is stuff you can't live without make sure you can take it along. I was allowed to take my dogs and it made life much easier.
7.              The kids education is your job.  Get to know them, have a giggle but remember they need to respect you when you say no. 
8.              If you think they're the wrong family for you or you won't make a good match, trust your instincts.
9.              Take a digital camera.  You will have some amazing photos to take home
10.         Go buy yourself a cheap laptop under $1000 to take with you.  Also get a Telstra prepaid wifi dongle that connects to an external aerial.  If you get phone service on property you can use it.  Or you can take it with you to town and use it when you are in for school events.
11.         Get a hobby ...take up blogging, you can share your adventure with your friends and family.  Remember don't use the work families real names, use a codename. For some good govies blogs check out gritandgiggles.blogspot.com or governessworld.blogspot.com or outbackwindow.blogspot.com
12.         If you have questions read the GovAust Govies Page 
13.         Shops are far away .. take personal and medical supplies to last 10 weeks.  It saves any embarrassment you may feel when shopping with your boss or coming home in the same car.
14.         Remember to take different size cases.  You need one to toss in the car when going to town for a few days for a school event.  The car will be packed up so big case won't fit for town trips.  I bought some Gidgee Smith Chest Bags  Medium Size  I can wipe the dust off and it squashes well.
15.         Pack a set of clothes for every occasion.  Clothes to get grubby, town clothes, race day clothes.
16.         Choose a job and area which appeals to you ... family and friends will have different ideas but in the end you will be the one going there.
17.         Get to know govies on your school.  Your all in the same position and will be great for social support.
18.         Pet calves always leave a warm disgusting mess at the door.  Look before walking.
19.         Feeding pet calves is not nearly as much fun at the end of the year as it was at the start.  By this time the kids will have abandoned the chore to you.
20.         Afternoon walks can keep you sane and keep the weight off from all the yummy food you are eating 5 times a day.
21.         Your bosses bedroom is always a long way from dogs who bark all night.  
22.         Take a alarm clock / radio that your MP3 player can connect to.  Drowns out barking animals, it will be great to wake up to music.
23.         The outback doesn't have many radio stations so bring music.
24.         Power blackouts take a long time to fix in the outback ... bringing a windup torch saves on batteries.
25.         Be prepared to not see much TV if you are sharing with the family.  The TV may be dominated by cartoons, news and weather.  Get a family member to tape your favourite shows and post them.
26.         Give the family space, throughout each week, in the afternoon and night to spend time as a family.  The parents need to have conversations which don't need to always include the governess.
27.         Smoko (morning and afternoon break) may look fantastic but after you have put on a clothing size the budget will be drained.
28.         Telstra Blue Tick mobile phone is the only type that get decent service along the roads and in town.  Talk to your boss or other govies about what they recommend.
29.         Buy a pair of boots that pull on and protect your feet.  My Baxter Boots, I can't live.  
30.         At some stage you will have to squat behind the car to go to the toilet ... so get use to that thought now.
 Do you have any to add?   already have thought of more for the next installment.  While even I don't agree with everyone of these it is great to have such a wide range of opinions.

Etiquette: Job Seekers need to reply to emails if they want respect (this goes for employer too)


A parent recently made contact with a person on the Resume / CV list. This is the parents explanation... "We emailed and then I sent my job description as she asked – with no reply.  Weeks have passed now and she did not have the common decency to get back to me."  

It is common courtesy to reply to future employers when they might send out their job description even if they do not think the position is right for them.  There is nothing more frustrating when you have a few people that you are contacting and trying to keep track of all the communication is hard enough without some of them not even replying to you. 

Guest Blog: A day in the life of By Lee-Anne

Welcome to our guest blog series of insights from governesses and nannies on stations sharing some of their outback station world.  

This story was written as part of a tongue in cheek series for the SA governess groups magazine the Govo Grapevine in 2003.  


*** GUEST BLOG ***



A Day In The Life Of ………….
7.10 Alarm trills.  Mind still asleep.  Well wishing anyway.  Turn off alarm

7.12 Briefly considered getting up.  Stupid idea.

7.15Grab remote control and turn on CD player.  Set sleep button
for 30 minutes.

7.45 Music turns off.  Swear briefly.  Damn it is time to get up.

8.00 Breaky completed, feeling human.  Millie (2 Y.O.) has talked her head off while I've been eating and Tanya (10 Y.O.) is brushing her teeth. Say good morning to my bosses.

8.05 Teeth brushed and computer on.  Checking emails.

8.30 Well the day starts as Tanya wanders in.  If she's singing she's happy if the outside door slams look out.

8.40 Assembly starts.  If I miss assembly my whole day gets out off kilter.  Tanya usually starts work while the messages are on in the background.

10.00 Break time.  Usually I go for a quick 15 minute walk up the flat to warm up and take in some rays.  Gets the blood pumping. Tanya usually tries to beat me on her bike.  Grab a hot Milo then head into the schoolroom.

10.30 Back to the grind.  Tanya continues working thru her list of work.  Slip in a card game on the computer if I have time.

12.10 LUNCH, Thank heavens I'm hungry.

1.10 Lunch is over all too quickly.  Lesson starts in 5 minutes. Quickly Login in and hope that we don't drop out again.

1.50 The teachers are going over time again.  Tanya and I are getting sick of lesson.  Tanya has sat properly all thru lesson.  I'll have to reward her for the good behaviour.

3.00 Schools OUT.  Thank heavens there are no meetings.  Do some
prep. for tomorrow.  Play my favourite game on the computer. Clean the bathroom.  CATS are fighting again.  Take to the big ginger bully with a broom.

5.00 Help my boss with tea be peeling the veggies.

5.30 Sit down in the old lounge and watch Neighbours,

7.00 Teas ready.  Pandemonium sweeps the kitchen as tea is being served and the kids are settling down,

8.00      Wash dishes and leave them to dry on the drainer, watch a bit more TV before I head on out to my room.  Get on the computer again,

10.30     Hop into bed and check to make sure the alarms on.  I sure hope the wind stops blowing as that piece of iron is stating to p*%$ me off.


by Lee-Anne Bright

My favourite outback blog

I have a lots of favourite blogs and if you go to my blog (http://governessworld.blogspot.com)  you will see a list...

... but one of the funniest blogs I have seen is...Farmers Way of Life

The Golden Rules of Farming  ...
Every time I read this wonderful series of points tears of laughter pour down my head as I nod in agreement and match the people and experiences up.