If people are fishing for gossip or trying to get your opinion on gossip about your employer or employees, BE VAGUE. It is none of their business.If two parents or governesses are talking about someone else governess or a parent be aware that it is not right or fair. Their personal and professional relationship is their business. If you don’t have a good relationship of trust with the person you are talking to, then don’t talk. Do not talk about other people’s governesses unless you absolutely trust the person not to say anything to anyone else.